Restful night...

Barb Moore, mom's childhood friend, came to stay with her last night and I just got a call from her. Mom rested quite a lot and peacefully according to Barb. Thank you Barb for taking care of mom and for being such an awesome friend. Barb lives in Florida and is here in Michigan visiting her children and grandchildren and took time out of her schedule to come see and stay with mom.

We never know when we will need true friends like that so I say to myself, treat others as you yourself would want to be treated. I believe there is a bible quote that says "Love thy neighbor as thyself".

Thank you to everyone for their support and love....we sure to appreciate it. Merry CHRISTmas to all!

Visitors.....

This past weekend Mimi had several friends and family visit. I know how hard it is for people to see someone you love not presenting themselves as they normally would. When someone who always was willing to share a cup of coffee or go to lunch, now mixes their words up....it hurts. Please remember how much mom has been a wonderful part of your lives. How many times you saw her helping out at church or in the grocery store always willing to stop and chat with a smile. She is still the same person spiritually and emotionally; her flesh has been changed. God knows her heart as He knows each of our hearts. If you feel you need to see her, that is okay. If you have difficulty and find it too hard to visit, that is okay too.

Thank you to everyone for prayers and cards....we appreciate all that has been done for our family in support. God be with each of you this holiday season.

Keep your focus on time you can spend with loved ones; the time goes way too fast.

School friends from long ago....

Mom's friend Barb Moore is here from Florida and came by to see her tonight! What a wonderful surprise for mom as she and Barb have known each other what seems forever! Mom use to babysit for Barb's daughter Patty and absolutely loved her! She even told me she would cry when Barb would come get her because she wanted to keep her!

It is always good to have friends from our childhood that we keep in touch with. I believe mom would say to stay in touch with those friends and someday when you least expect it you may need their support or just a hand to hold. Thanks Barb!

Darlene Hammond, another of mom's childhood buddies, is coming to stay with her tonight. I know that mom will appreciate her coming and staying with her. For safety reasons, we are having someone stay with her each evening and throughout the night.

Thank you to everyone; family and friends, who have provided the wonderful support for our family to work through this life event....although I realize it has been a challenge, I know it will make us stronger. God bless everyone!

CHRISTmas week...

Well when I arrived today, Mimi is up with Papa reading over her CHRISTmas cards. She just finished her lunch (ate about 1/3) and is going to be getting cleaned up soon. Papa told them that would be good since she will likely have lots of company today. (Today is the Dilworth CHRISTmas and plans are, I believe, to come over in shifts to visit her).

Mimi looks rested today. I spoke with the nurse early this morning and she said that she did better last night as far as resting and comfort is concerned. Prayers for comfort are most appreciated at this time.

As we approach CHRISTmas day, I know Mimi would want you all to enjoy your families, treasure the noise and the messes made, eat those treats and feel blessed that you have one another.

Blessings to all of you and updates will be made as much as possible....thanks to everyone for your support and love!

Resting still...

I came to visit Mimi and decided I was going to stay the night. Mimi was a little aggitated throughout the evening but finally about 1:30am, she fell asleep and is still sleeping! Wow! So glad she is finally resting peacefully......thank you God for that.

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers for Mimi.

Resting and watching turkeys...

Mimi had a few visitors before I arrived today. Diane Brown had been here and of course Chuck. Aunt Gloria and Uncle Steve are here from Arizona and they were visiting with Mimi when some turkeys came out....of course they had to take some pictures so they could send to their daughter Stephanie in Arizona. Mom seems pretty good; a little tired.

We appreciate your continued thoughts and prayers. Mom needs prayers for rest and comfort. It is also hard to see her so confused although we are so very grateful she recognizes each of us. That is truly a blessing!

Take care and will update you again tomorrow.

Weekend activities

Yesterday we held our annual Tilden cookie decorating....Mimi always had lots of frosting, candies and different cookie shapes to decorate growing up and even in our later years (like last year!) It was quite an event! Jeff, Angie, JJ, Carissa, Danny, Danielle, John (Danielle's friend), Papa and myself were here for the event. We brought all the fixings and the cookies to decorate. We even had some crackers and cheese to munch on while we celebrated.

Mom has had lots of visitors and it seems to do her some good. If you would like to visit, please feel free. She looks good and is well taken care of here at the Hospice Home. The home is located on Kingsbrooke Drive which is just across from Vista Grande Villa off Springport Road near airport Meijer/down the road from Baker College in Jackson.

Lots of friends and family have come by and made Christmas cards, helped decorate her tree and visit with her. Thank you all for your support, love, thoughts and prayers. We do appreciate the love you show us through caring about Mimi.

Hoping you are all understanding the true meaning of Christmas; not just about gifts or cards but of giving of yourself to those who need it most. And most of all, sharing with your family the love of the Christ child whose birth is soon upon us.

Prayers and blessings to all!